Craffies Coaching » self leadership http://www.craffiescoaching.co.za The art of being Sun, 25 Jul 2010 21:05:43 +0000 en hourly 1 Friends… http://www.craffiescoaching.co.za/2009/09/friends/ http://www.craffiescoaching.co.za/2009/09/friends/#comments Wed, 16 Sep 2009 15:14:52 +0000 admin http://www.craffiescoaching.co.za/?p=365 You must constantly ask yourself these questions:

Who am I around? What are they doing to me?
What have they got me reading?
What have they got me saying?
Where do they have me going?
What do they have me thinking?
And most important, what do they have me becoming?
Then ask yourself the big question: Is that okay?

Jim Rohn

]]> http://www.craffiescoaching.co.za/2009/09/friends/feed/ 0 Power… http://www.craffiescoaching.co.za/2009/09/power/ http://www.craffiescoaching.co.za/2009/09/power/#comments Sun, 06 Sep 2009 14:55:40 +0000 admin http://www.craffiescoaching.co.za/?p=360 “What lies behind us and what lies before us are small matters compared to what lies within us.” Ralph Waldo Emerson

]]> http://www.craffiescoaching.co.za/2009/09/power/feed/ 0 To do… http://www.craffiescoaching.co.za/2009/04/to-do/ http://www.craffiescoaching.co.za/2009/04/to-do/#comments Sun, 12 Apr 2009 06:05:54 +0000 admin http://www.craffiescoaching.co.za/?p=303 My obligation is to do the thing. The rest is in God’s hands.
Martin Luther King

So be sure your moments are being spend on things that are taking you nearer to your dreams. Also make sure that you are busy doing while still being yourself. As we are human beings and not human doings.

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I want to share a few thoughts on integral way of being. Where do we make decisions?

The sensation in or belly give a sensation in our body.

The feeling in our chest gives us a sensation about how we feel about the situation, influenced by our character and spirit.

Lastly our minds, where the decision are made. This is where we have choice; will I allow my chest and belly to give me direction, or am I going to let my decision be pure cognitive decisions.

An integral approach will take us to the next level.

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Habits determine our day to day actions. Our day to day actions create our lives. So how is habits created. The following is a good philosophy around habits:

Know how? I would refer to my world of know. What is my knowledge, what are my world views? Right or wrong does not matter.

How do I execute? This also refers to the process is follow. What is my Behaviour, emotions and thoughts regarding the matter? Secondly what is the language I use, with specific reference to my preferred sensory style? Thirdly the how in terms of the process?

How do I see? This in my mind refers to my values, my culture and my attitude?

This leaves me with the question, how does the above influence me to perform optimally?

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